Trans Kids and the Issues that fall between them and their parents.

Recently i had talked to some trans friends online . And it was not a shock that more than 75% of had parents who were not supportive to them. I really don’t understand that why does these 75 % are left alone, what they did that they are made a culprit for. Already the trans children tend to be lonesome and victimized by depression due to their own Identity issues. And the time when they need their parents and close ones the most , they are left alone and are also opposed and harassed. According to me if one can't support you in the bad days have no right to oppose as well. My mom had told me that even if the parents has a child who is handicapped , or worst situation they can be in. The parents never leave them, but try to help them to heal. Then if my child is all good but with some of the minor issues for which they are not even responsible for then why play blame game with them . That you did everything on your own and is responsible for your own miseries.

 I’ll say no one is . It's not a choice and this is what we were born with. In this condition many of the children try to hurt themselves , and get rid of the hostile situation. And no parent would want to see their own child dead. 

 On the other hand when the parents support their child . It not only boost the confidence in the child and provide immunity to fight the possessive outside world. But, it also make the transition stage too easy. And if not only parents but brother and sisters are also accepting then the child blossoms to become a beautiful person that they are from inside. When our own family is accepting then there is maximum chances that the peoples outside such as relatives and neighbors are more accepting as well. Then the child may forget that they have any issue and live the life normally.

 A final advice to the kids as well , look if you're parents are not accepting then it may be possible that they didn’t understood the fact. And even if they did it is not that easy for them to accept it so easily. Some of them may think that it's just a phase that you are going through, so buy them some time, maybe later they would be accepting. Because it's what you want not leaving every loved ones behind at a cost of achieving your own identity,but if even then they didn’t behave gently and have a continuous rude behavior towards you badly then i’ll say just move on and be what you are suppose d to be. Why to be worried for those who can’t even accept who you are , but they want the one who you have been acting to be since child.

 My parents were not accepting as well , but……….. 

 Rest i’ll share in my next coming out post , stay tuned.